Hello everyone,
Sorry it’s been so long since the last update! There is one decent internet cafe here with only six computers and sluggish internet speeds. Also, I had typed up a very long update on Tuesday night but it got lost in cyperspace
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The experience has been absolutely amazing for all of us so far. The people are all so friendly (although we did discover quickly that the friendly street people are just looking to sell us arts, crafts, and newspapers for twice their actual price). People say hello to everyone as they pass on the street – completely different than in New York! All of the food tastes amazing because it is all local and has no need for artificial preservatives, etc. The other people staying at Ujamaa are so warm and friendly and have made it feel like a second home. We are truly, according to the Swahili translation, a “community.”
There are 42 students that we have been working with at Umoja, aged 14-29. They have each gone through unimaginable hardships. Many of them are AIDS orphans and work hours upon hours each day in order to be able to make enough money to live. Deborah, for example, wakes up early in the morning to cook for 25 people, and then walks an hour to Umoja for her classes. When she is done she walks the hour back and cooks dinner for, cleans for, and does laundry for the same 25 people. Every day. Maria is a house maid – cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc. She has not been paid since January, but since she has no where else to go with guaranteed food or shelter, she has to stay with the same family – essentially, she is an indentured servant. She is quite possibly the most upbeat, happy, and genuinely excited students at Umoja, and we never would have been able to tell that she was going through that situation if we hadn’t been told. Janet’s father just passed away from HIV/AIDS last week, and her mother has just been diagnosed. Before we came on Monday, she told Caroline and Emma, the program managers, that she doesn’t understand why she should even bother going to school anymore and that she will never have any reason to smile ever again. Caroline and Emma believed that she would have to go through some counseling to help her through the impossibly difficult time in her life. If they had not told us about her situation, we would have had absolutely NO idea. She is constantly laughing, dancing, and singing along with everyone else. On Tuesday we found out that the fact that she had come back for a second day was a strong statement about overcoming her emotional block – and we later found out indirectly that Emma and Caroline no longer think she needs the counseling to help her through this difficult time.
Honestly, if we hadn’t come here knowing that all of these students have lived through (and still do live through) unimaginable circumstances, we would have no idea. They are absolutely the most excitable, giggly, happy and upbeat group of students that you can imagine, and so grateful for everything that they have.
For our own convenience, we hired a chef for lunch during the two weeks we will be at Umoja – otherwise we would waste much of the school day walking to get food. We found out afterward that many of these students don’t know when there next meal will be – the lunch that we bought for them might be there ONLY meal for the day. I never realized how much it was going to mean to them.
We have been setting a theme to each day – Monday was “play.” Have fun, loosen up, make some new friends. Tuesday, “share.” We performed for the students and they shared with us and each other. Wednesday, “trust.” Trust yourself, trust your friends, trust your teachers. Thursday, “risk.” Put yourself out there and try something new. Friday, “create.” We wrote songs, poems, new dances, and introduced the creative process that we will be exploring all of next week when we make their show.
Yesterday, being a day off from Umoja, we all went to a place called the Future Happiness Home. It is a home for girls aged 4-18 (although the oldest is currently 14) who have lost their parents and do not have the capability to stay with their other relatives. They are the most beautiful girls. Again, they are so genuinely happy and excited to see people that I would have had no idea what they had gone through. As soon as we opened the gate to enter the home, they came running down the driveway screaming giving each of us individual hugs and kisses! We sang songs with them such as “Ring Around the Rosey,” “If you’re happy and you know it clap your hands,” etc.
More updates soon!